Saturday 13 December 2014

Driving home for Christmas (not literally, obvs)


In a weeks’ time I will be home for Christmas and I will have been here 6 months. 6 months. Half a year!  That just seems unbelievable to me, especially when at the end of the first two weeks I wasn’t sure if I was going to be able to stick it.

It wasn’t the easiest of transitions – losing my incredible nan 3 days before coming out here and missing her funeral, living in a hotel and then my boss quitting after my first week made me feel completely lost and alone and desperate to sack it all in and come home. But I stuck with it, and I’m so glad that I did.

I am having such a good time here and I completely love this city. I’ve been so lucky to have met a really good group of people. Everyone says the best aspect of expat life is the social side of things and they’re right. There’s no planning here, which at first drove OCD me insane - you might mention going out for drinks one night but nothing’s ever planned until the last minute. Everything feels spontaneous, and everyone knows, spontaneous nights are always the best!

And there’s always someone to do stuff with. It’s not like at home where you have to book your time in 3 months in advance, someone can message you on a Friday night and say let’s go out and off you go. Maybe some of that is just living in a city vs. a town, I’m not sure.

My resolution for when I come back is to travel more – go on weekend breaks and see more of China. Having only seen Beijing and Shanghai up to this point is terrible, so I am going to see more. Selfie stick at the ready…

I am so excited to be coming home for a bit –to see my family and friends, meeting all the new babies and my niece, who is getting so big now and Skyping just isn’t the same as giving her a big hug! And even though there are Christmas trees all over the place here (and knitted reindeers in my building lobby), it’s not the same as hearing Slade or the Pogues blasting out every time I go into a shop or get in my car. Anyone who knows me well knows how much I love Christmas, so being somewhere where it’s not such a big deal makes me a bit sad. Plus there’s all the little rituals missing – decorating the trees with my mum, going Christmas shopping, putting my best friends’ tree up whilst drinking red wine and watching the Muppet Christmas Carol. And I can’t find anywhere that sells Advocaat, which upsets me more than I would care to admit!!

And finally on a slightly cheesy note (but hey it’s Christmas), it’s been a tumultuous year but I am so lucky to be surrounded by such amazing friends and family who have been with me every step of the way this year. Your love and support is what gave me the strength to do all this, and I am so grateful for you all xxx

A very long post about Beijing


After 5 months of being here, I finally made it to Beijing. I know it seems like I should have gone sooner, but even though it’s in the same country it’s so far away – the flight is the same time as a flight from the UK to Germany or Spain. 

I went with a friend of mine who’s been here 6 months who hadn’t been yet either.  We decided to take the train, which is cheaper than flying but takes just over 5 hours.  Taking a train in China is an interesting experience to say the least. Even booking tickets is difficult. There’s an official site (like National Rail) but it’s all in Chinese. The English ones whack a handling fee on so you end up paying a bit more, but most of the time that’s your only choice as the trains are so busy you can’t just go the station and risk not getting a ticket. At the station itself there are these big screens (in Chinese) that show you how many seats are left in each class on each train. As it was cheaper we decided to go second class (about 50 quid one way). Have to admit, was slightly concerned what second-class Chinese train carriages would be like. The answer is absolutely gorgeous. Loads of legroom, reclining seats, nice toilets, buffet car – I was very impressed. Not sure the trains to the provinces would be the same, but this was amazing!

The first thing that struck me about Beijing is that it is very different to Shanghai. Firstly, it’s bloody freezing. I had been warned but the contrast to Shanghai was quite a shock.  Secondly, the taxis are newer, cleaner and the drivers not quite as crazy. No-one pushed in front of us in the taxi queue which was a China first for me, and the people overall seemed much friendlier.  The other major thing I noticed was that Beijing is quite spaced out- everything is a metro or taxi ride away whereas everything in downtown Shanghai is within walking distance which I think makes it easier for day to day living. There’s also a lot more history. In Shanghai, lots of the historical sites have been torn down to make way for skyscrapers, but in Beijing a lot of them are still intact which was nice and made a real change.

We went on the weekend of the APEC meeting, which is a global summit for countries like China, the US, Japan, Australia etc. This year it was being held in Beijing and to be honest we didn’t think much of it. One bonus we hadn’t banked on though was the air quality. Because it’s a global conference the Beijing government had closed the factories, limited the number of cars on the road and given people holidays. So the pollution score was about 20 – compared to its usual 200/300/500 rating. To compare, London is normally about 40. This was great for two reasons – one, it made my photos look so much better. Two, it meant you could actually walk around. Everyone was referring to the sky as ‘APEC blue’.

So we hired a private tour guide, which I think was the best thing we could have possibly done, after seeing the hordes of people getting on and off buses, all wearing matching coloured baseball caps and following a person with a flag and a loudspeaker. It wasn’t that expensive either – for pick up at the hotel, Tiananmen Square, Forbidden City, a couple of factories where they try and get you to buy stuff, and the Wall, it was 50 quid each.  The only extra cost was 10 to go up to the Wall in a cable car.

We started at Tiananmen Square, which despite being there at 830 in the morning, was fairly full of people. And soldiers. With guns. Which is really scary.  The biggest queue was getting through the security check, because of the history of the place they are very cautious letting people through without checking them first. However, a lot of the Chinese people that were queuing decided to take the matter into their own hands and jump the barriers. It was kind of funny, until the soldiers came over and started telling them off – that was terrifying! Essentially Tiananmen Square is….a big square. It’s even split by a road, so you don’t really realise you’re in it to start with. Our guide walked us straight over to the building at the front of the Forbidden City, where she told us that the portrait of Mao was specifically done so his eyes follow you wherever you go…

What we didn’t realise was that was it for Tiananmen Square, she rushed us straight through to go through Mao’s gate and into the Forbidden City which was a real shame.

Onto the Forbidden City. Seriously impressive, and not that busy which was great. Just building upon building upon building, the size of the whole thing is incredible. Some of it is closed off to preserve it, but apart from that it’s exactly like you see it on TV.

And then to the Wall. There are two or 3 parts of the Wall that are open to tourists- the most popular of which is Badaling, as it’s the most accessible and it’s about an hour out of Beijing. By accessible I mean all the others involve some level of hiking. However this means it is also the busiest and this was the part we went to. On the drive there you saw glimpses of it, in particular where roads have been built and so the Wall has been broken and is now eroding on either side. When we got there, we had to decide whether to walk or get the cable car -we chose the cable car. Again busy but not that bad – I think maybe I’ve been in China so long I’m used to queuing now.

When we actually got to the Wall, you have a few options of which way to go to walk. We decided to go one way, and it was steep. I was shocked by how steep it was actually. And busy. We got about half way (after having stopped to take countless pictures and selfies of course, and been asked to star in a few other people’s pictures too) and looked up to see if we could keep going. And it was just one big mass of people, not moving, just crammed in, so we decided that was maybe a no.

I have to say it was one of the most surreal experiences of my life. It's not every day you get to say ‘I stood on the Great Wall of China’. Made all the more surreal by seeing one gentleman take a box of KFC with him to the top, presumably for a picnic. Reminded me of the episode of ‘An Idiot Abroad’ where Karl eats at Pizza Hut overlooking the Pyramids.

And then of course dinner was Peking Duck, which is the local speciality, and then Sunday we went to the Summer Palace which is about a 30 minute taxi ride out of Beijing centre. Again, one of those completely surreal moments when you realise you’re in China, on a lake, in a boat, in the sunshine.

One of the best weekends of my life – and more things ticked off the bucket list.